Wherefore, I must again and again repeat, you must satisfy your judgment before engaging your affections: not love first and judge afterwards.
Cicero: “Wherefore, I must again and again repeat, you must satisfy your judgment before engaging your affections: not love first…”
Editor's note · Context
Offering practical advice on forming relationships, this passage stresses the importance of careful consideration and judgment before committing one's affections.
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For we are all attracted and drawn to a zeal for learning and knowing; and we think it glorious to excel therein, while we count it base and immoral to fall into error, to wander from the truth, to be ignorant, to be led astray.
Moreover, all our thought and mental activity will be devoted either to planning for things that are morally right and that conduce to a good and happy life, or to the pursuits of science and learning.
Still, I do not mean to find fault with the accumulation of property, provided it hurts nobody, but unjust acquisition of it is always to be avoided.
And so, when we have leisure from the demands of business cares, we are eager to see, to hear, to learn something new, and we esteem a desire to know the secrets or wonders of creation as indispensable to a happy life.





