On the record44 BC
But most people unreasonably, not to speak of modesty, want such a friend as they are unable to be themselves, and expect from their friends what they do not themselves give.
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gutenberg.orgCicero: “But most people unreasonably, not to speak of modesty, want such a friend as they are unable to be themselves, and…”
Editor's note · Context
Critiquing common human failings in relationships, this passage points out the unreasonable expectations many have of their friends.
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