But the man who is most to blame is he who resents plain speaking and allows flattery to egg him on to his ruin.
Cicero: “But the man who is most to blame is he who resents plain speaking and allows flattery to egg him on to his ruin.”
Editor's note · Context
In a discussion about the dynamics of friendship, Cicero identifies the individual who rejects honest criticism and succumbs to praise as ultimately responsible for their own downfall.
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There are, on the other hand, two kinds of injustice--the one, on the part of those who inflict wrong, the other on the part of those who, when they can, do not shield from wrong those upon whom it is being inflicted.
For nothing is more commendable, nothing more becoming in a pre-eminently great man than courtesy and forbearance.
For we contend, for example, with a fellow-citizen in one way, if he is a personal enemy, in another, if he is a rival: with the rival it is a struggle for office and position, with the enemy for life and honour.
And it is a great man's duty in troublous times to single out the guilty for punishment, to spare the many, and in every turn of fortune to hold to a true and honourable course.





