The first, which holds that our regard for ourselves is to be the measure of our regard for our friend, is not true; for how many things there are which we would never have done for our own sakes, but do for the sake of a friend!
Cicero: “The first, which holds that our regard for ourselves is to be the measure of our regard for our friend, is not true; for…”
On the record44 BC
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Cicero
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In his exploration of the nature of friendship, Cicero challenges the idea that self-love should be the ultimate measure of affection for a friend.
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