As a general rule, we must wait to make up our mind about friendships till men's characters and years have arrived at their full strength and development.
Cicero: “As a general rule, we must wait to make up our mind about friendships till men's characters and years have arrived at…”
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From his essay on friendship, Cicero advises prudence in forming close bonds, suggesting that true character reveals itself with maturity.
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I don't wish to depreciate life, as many men and good philosophers have often done; nor do I regret having lived, for I have done so in a way that lets me think that I was not born in vain.
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