In friendship, let the influence of friends who give good advice be paramount; and let this influence be used to enforce advice not only in plain-spoken terms, but sometimes, if the case demands it, with sharpness; and when so used, let it be obeyed.
Discussing the dynamics of true friendship, Cicero outlines the proper way to give and receive advice, even when it is stern.
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