Theodore Roosevelt actually said...

The only way by which, in the long run, any man can be helped is by teaching him to help himself.

Hardness of heart is a dreadful quality, but it is doubtful whether, in the long run, it works more damage than softness of head.

The man who lives simply, and justly, and honor ably, whether rich or poor, is a good citizen.

Shame upon the man who, when the opportunity to help is given, fails to stretch out the hand.