But thou must equally avoid nattering men and being vexed at them, for both are unsocial and lead to harm.
Marcus Aurelius: “But thou must equally avoid nattering men and being vexed at them, for both are unsocial and lead to harm.”
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In his personal writings, Marcus Aurelius warns against both flattery and vexation towards others, identifying both as unsocial and harmful.
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